Mr Rajas Perfect Neighbourhood

The perfect Neighbourhood
Mister Rogers



You probably won’t believe me when I tell you about my perfect neighbourhood. Let’s call it Mister Rogers Mr. Raja’s neighbourhood. It’s a Muslimah’s dream.  There are about eight of my really good friends living in a 1 km radius of me, most within walking distance.

I  know what you’re thinking- that we all became friends after moving here- wrong! We were all part of a tight knit group and then one by one we all moved here! Honestly it’s such an incredible blessing.  You should see our neighbourhood in Ramadan! 10 minutes before Iftaar there’s constant ringing of the doorbell and plate after plate of uber yummy food from the families (totally going to post about it in a few months!).

Missing an ingredient? Just walk over to anyone’s home- they’re bound to have it.

Brutal snow storm? You might find your driveway shoveled by a mysterious do–gooder.

Crazy sale? You’ll hear about it on our neighbourhood WhatsApp group – oh and in case you can’t make it to the store someone will pick up the items for you and refuse to let you pay them back.

Not feeling well? Before you even pop a Tylenol there will be food at your door step.. and if you have kids one of the lovely ladies will arrange a spur-of-the-moment play-date ,  drive over, pick up your kids and let you rest for a few hours!

I forgot to mention the bi-weekly sisters halaqa (Islamic study circle) brunch at one of the houses, the brothers fajr carpool, the spontaneous surprise parties to celebrate pretty much anything (one must always be party ready- the next time the doorbell rings it could be all the girls, dressed up with food, decorations and presents in tow- ready to celebrate your cat’s first tooth)

I bet you don’t believe me.


It seems too perfect right?

Well you’re right- there’s no such thing as perfection and my neighbourhood has an imperfection- it’s me.


I believe I manifested into the ‘imperfection’ because the role of perfect neighbour was already taken- I had to balance things out ok?

The real seal of ‘bad neighbour’ was when one of the ladies profusely thanked me for the unbelievably delicious food I had left on her doorstep- it was a real life saver since she had the worst  migraine, a  virus and was exhausted from feeding the homeless before going to work that morning.

It wasn’t me.

And whoever it was, was trying to remain anonymous on top of being so awesome!.

No,  no..this post is not some sort of a confession!! ( I’m a bad neighbour not a bad human being!)

I sheepishly directed her to the most likely do-gooder and internalized the role of loser neighbour.

But not anymore!

Because I have this!

silicone muffin pan

silicone muffin pan

It’s a silicone muffin tray.

Let me explain…

This soft squishy piece of silicone has got to be one of the best things ever invented!

It’s excellent for freezing food and liquids in individual portions. After freezing you simply pop them out and place in freezer bags for later use. Unlike a normal tin muffin tray  your food won’t stick to the sides. Especially after a big dinner party when there’s left over food- I just pour them in the tray, freeze it, remove the ‘muffins’ of food and put them in freezer bags. This way I can defrost a single serving instead of a whole bunch.


This thing is a life saver for when you want to make a week’s worth of lunches or want to be extra prepared to keep up with your superhuman neighbours.

I am a Muslimah on a mission. I will no longer be the loser neighbour, I will redeem myself- one sick neighbour at a time!

I made a huge pot of bone broth (recipe coming soon) and froze them in my silicone trays. I am so pumped up and ready. I keep reminding myself it’s wrong to wish for somebody to get sick just so I can be the first one to deliver soup (hmm might have more issues than I know need more than a silicone muffin tray to shed the role of bad neighbour!).

Yes I know the food sent to me was probably freshly prepared from the organic fair trade produce literally grown in their own backyards- but this is the best I can do.. we all gotta start with baby steps right?

All jokes aside ,  I can’t believe  how lucky I am to be surrounded by such an amazing group of people. While trying to play catch up, I have learned so much from each and every one of them. I truly believe Allah swt blessed me with their company to make me a better person. Sometimes when we count blessings we forget to include friends and neighbours to that list. In fact we sometimes don’t even realize how awesome our neighbours are until we have had a bad one.


Just for the record I would be considered a pretty good neighbour by normal neighbourhood standards.

Now I wait…keeping an ear out for sniffling and sneezes.

Chai later,



12 Comments on Mr Rajas Perfect Neighbourhood

  1. Sarah
    April 22, 2015 at 12:54 pm (3 years ago)

    Bravo! Agreed… your neighbourhood is amazing Mash’Allah! Even when I come visit there are drop ins and presents from time to time. You are so right about not knowing how great a neighbour is until you have a bad one. Let’s all count our blessings and make dua for the lovely neighbours we have. I’m gonna try to get more acquainted with our neighbours this summer… there are more young families moving in so should be fun for the kiddies. I think you should do a post on how to interact with our neighbours this spring/summer/Ramadan 🙂 <3

    • Sahar
      April 25, 2015 at 9:25 am (3 years ago)

      Hey Sarah,
      See! I have proof that this neighbourhood exists!..I think most people think I am making it up 🙂
      Good idea! I think I shall write that post..Obviously I have amazing examples to take noted from Allhumdullillah.

  2. Anisa
    April 22, 2015 at 3:54 pm (3 years ago)

    You couldn’t have ended up in a better neighbourhood! Alhumdulillah

    • Sahar
      April 25, 2015 at 9:27 am (3 years ago)

      Hey Anisa,
      I know right?
      Another example of great blessings that I never asked for but now cannot live without 🙂

  3. random bytes
    April 23, 2015 at 3:21 am (3 years ago)

    That’s wonderful.. I would love to have such a neighborhood :):)

    Near my place, I rarely know anyone.. no socializing and no exchanging of gifts or eatables 🙁

    • Sahar
      April 25, 2015 at 9:31 am (3 years ago)

      Hi Random Bytes (love the blog name!),

      I know how you feel- my last neighbourhood was like yours.
      hmmm..look on the bright side,,less calories to consume 🙂

  4. Javeria @ Scribbles by JFZ
    April 23, 2015 at 9:38 am (3 years ago)

    Ummm address please! New neighbour coming through! 😉

    (Did I mention – great, well-written post. Now I’m off to devour the rest of your blog.)

    • Sahar
      April 25, 2015 at 9:33 am (3 years ago)

      Salaamz Javeria!
      We would love to have you..probably throw you a fantastic party once you do!
      Thank you so much for the kind words! Can’t wait to check out your blog!

  5. Sudduf
    April 24, 2015 at 9:35 pm (3 years ago)

    I hope I count as a neighbour ie: when I visit tajee’s…but mostly I just borrow your clothes + eat your food so wait…you ARE a good neighbour!!!

    • Sahar
      April 25, 2015 at 9:35 am (3 years ago)

      Salaamz Sudduf!
      you totally count! When are you coming next?
      lol..awww thanx! still working on my baby steps

  6. Me
    April 26, 2015 at 12:18 am (3 years ago)

    Your neighborhood sounds incredible.
    P.S. love your blog, it is absolutely amazing

    • Sahar
      April 27, 2015 at 11:07 am (3 years ago)

      Hi Me!
      (has a strange ring to it 🙂 )
      Thank you so much for the sweet comment
      thanx for stopping by.


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